#GetComfortable with feminine health & win a £50 John Lewis voucher

Feminine health

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Comfort is something I am really big on. I very rarely stray from my favourite jeans, I always have a pair of fluffy slippers on my feet and if I can be wearing pyjamas, I will be. The postman is used to seeing me in pyjamas now, it’s fine.

If you talk about being comfortable most people will mention things such as soft pyjamas, fluffy new socks, a duvet day on the sofa or a pair of shoes that cushion your feet even after hours spent Christmas shopping. But comfort goes deeper than that – comfort starts with the bodies underneath the clothes.

Now I have never been one to feel totally comfortable in my own skin. As a teenager, I had the usual discussions with my friends – how to get rid of spots, the best hairstyle for my face shape, how to get away with wearing that short skirt to school. But would I have talked to them about my private parts? Would I heck! There may have been giggling references to period pains, but never anything more than that. I guess that’s considered ‘normal’ at that age – but really, should it be? Or should we actually be encouraging our teens to discuss their vaginas as they would any other part of their body? Is it really any different to our arms, legs or boobs? 

Things changed a bit when I had children. Growing and birthing 4 children has meant I have had to be a lot more open about my feminine areas. I have had people stick their hands and surgical instruments up there – and in all honestly why should that be an issue? It’s a part of my body that is designed to birth a baby. That’s the primary function. That’s what it was made for. I am a big advocate of breastfeeding, and allowing women to feed uncovered and un self-consciously whenever and wherever they choose. So why should talking about a vagina be any different? 50% of the human race have one. Most of those have, or will have, a child. As nature intended. 

Post birth, it’s also something we don’t talk about – but this maybe the time when we really should. Supporting other women who need advice about stitches, episiotomy scars, bleeding, thrush, post birth sex, and all the other things that go hand in hand with childbirth and the recovery. If we all just admitted that we were struggling, that childbirth is a major trauma, that we all need some advice about remedies and cures that could help us, maybe we would all feel a lot more comfortable.

It’s a part of our body. It’s a part of our body that has a very important function, and yet we still forget that, and shy away from talking about it to anyone – parents, siblings, friends, even healthcare professionals. I am as guilty as anyone else of not being open enough, but I want that to change. It’s important. A smear test could save your life. A chat about symptoms could save someone elses. 

On that note, remember how important it is to keep your vagina clean and healthy – why that is such a taboo topic I don’t know. We clean the rest of our bodies without a second thought, we recommend shower gels and moisturisers, but we don’t recommend vaginal care products do we? Well now I am. Wear cotton underwear, don’t use perfumed products down there, and keep a stock of the new Canesten products – they have a great range of feminine care products to help you take care of an important part of your body at all times. #GetComfortable

Do you think you have enough knowledge about how to take care of your intimate health on a daily basis? Do you, as a woman, feel awkward about discussing feminine intimate health?

What are your best tips for not feeling embarrassed about discussing your intimate health? If you feel able to leave me a comment below, you could be in with a chance to win a £50 John Lewis voucher – good luck!

This post has been supported by Canesten, but all thoughts are my own.

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561 Comments

  1. Holly Gibson
    December 19, 2015 / 5:59 pm

    Knowing the anatomical names for things helps. It’s far easier (I find) to talk about the vagina and labia than just referring to “downstairs”

  2. December 19, 2015 / 6:18 pm

    I think it’s great that you write posts like this to make feminine hygiene a more talked about subject and sonwomen don’t shy away from visiting the gp if needs be x

  3. ashleigh allan
    December 19, 2015 / 6:45 pm

    Talk to people you trust!

  4. Samantha loughlin
    December 19, 2015 / 8:22 pm

    Just be relaxed and honest xx

  5. December 19, 2015 / 8:50 pm

    I do feel awkward discussing this issue, which is strange as I’ll quite happily share my labour stories. I think we should be more open on this subject.
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  6. Marc Chivers
    December 19, 2015 / 8:56 pm

    Have a drink first

  7. frances hopkins
    December 19, 2015 / 9:30 pm

    Just think other people have the same problems, and health is far too important to leave

  8. Bob Clark
    December 19, 2015 / 9:49 pm

    I always try and relax and try to be completely honest and truthful

  9. jen morgan
    December 19, 2015 / 10:07 pm

    always talk to people who you can trust and who you feel comfortable with.

  10. Kay Panayi
    December 19, 2015 / 10:52 pm

    I always try to see the same lady doctor X

  11. Michaela Hannah
    December 20, 2015 / 5:52 am

    To just remember that whatever the problem is it wont get resolved without discussing it

  12. cat
    December 20, 2015 / 9:08 am

    Remember that problems are usually common and a problem shared is halved! :):)

  13. kayleigh Bates
    December 20, 2015 / 9:57 am

    Deep breath and just get it out there x

  14. Emilie Curry
    December 20, 2015 / 10:33 am

    Have a baby! Once you’ve been through that you’re not embarrassed about anything any more lol!

  15. Megan Kinsey
    December 20, 2015 / 12:43 pm

    Just be honest! Don’t laugh at anyone when they’re discussing sensitive issues and also don’t think about it too much. If you build it up in your mind you’ll just get nervous so just dive in!

  16. Zach Hudson
    December 20, 2015 / 12:50 pm

    Remember they have probably seen it all before and worse

  17. marion morgan
    December 20, 2015 / 1:16 pm

    Once you have had kids, you don’t really care anymore

  18. Hannah Ingham
    December 20, 2015 / 1:35 pm

    Have confidence and believe in yourself!

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